Nancy MacNeil & Mary Lucey

May 5, 2023


Nancy Jean MacNeil, 72, of Oceano passed peacefully in her sleep at home, February 11, 2023. Her cherished wife, Mary Lucey, 64, followed a short time after.

Nancy is the beloved sister of Cynthia and Kenneth; aunt of Kenneth, Karina, and Tyler; grandaunt of Quinten MacNeil; mother to Melissa and Holly; grandmother to all children.

Mary is the beloved mother of Melissa and Holly; grandmother of Alicia, Preston, Maddie, and Damien; sister of Shelly Dishman and Andy Osenbrock; auntie to Kenneth, Tyler, Karina and Quinten.

Nancy and Mary were a devoted, loving couple. They retired to Oceano about 20 years ago after working as activists and advocates in the HIV/AIDS community.  Their lives were defined by commitment to justice, commitment to family, and commitment to love. Always providing a safe, happy haven for those in need. They leave behind numerous friends and cousins near and far. All are broken-hearted.

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Celebration of Life
July 15, 2023

2:00 PM
Marshall-Spoo Sunset Funeral Chapel
1239 Longbranch Ave.
Grover Beach, CA 93433


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