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James Warren Darling
January 30, 1933 ~ June 25, 2017 (age 84) 84 Years Old Light a Candle
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Message from Nancy and Luke
July 22, 2017 8:53 AM
We sure miss Jim! I had SO much fun with him thru the 11 or so years since we all met.........our thoughts are with you, Bobbie. Never dreamed my 'Grumpy' friend would be gone from us.......we loved him and YOU.
A candle was lit by Kristina Anhalt
on July 1, 2017 1:27 PM
Message from Patricia Adams
June 30, 2017 3:45 PM
Patricia Adams. My Dad was always there for me. I will miss him with all my heart and soul . I love you Daddy you will always be with me.. I will always be your little girl. Love you
A candle was lit by Patricia Adams
on June 30, 2017 3:35 PM
A candle was lit by Darrell& Martha
on June 28, 2017 7:55 PM
Message from Darrell (Jack) and Martha Mount
June 28, 2017 7:53 PM
For the past 40 years, Papa treated me as a son even though 20 were a time in life that nobody should have been supportive and encouraging to me. He never gave up on me even when I gave up.
I will always honor him in my life as the dad that loved me no matter what.
George has company to keep an eye on us all up in heaven,
Just remember how many family we have cheering us on up there.
I know Papa just got to see Grandma again, he really loves her, a great reunion is happening a great celebration welcoming Papa home.
We will all be together in Paradise together soon.
Love Darrell
I will always honor him in my life as the dad that loved me no matter what.
George has company to keep an eye on us all up in heaven,
Just remember how many family we have cheering us on up there.
I know Papa just got to see Grandma again, he really loves her, a great reunion is happening a great celebration welcoming Papa home.
We will all be together in Paradise together soon.
Love Darrell
A candle was lit by Philip Anhalt
on June 28, 2017 7:06 PM
A candle was lit by Philip Anhalt
on June 28, 2017 7:06 PM
Message from Lowell & Earnesteen Forister
June 28, 2017 8:12 AM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you
A candle was lit by Robin Mount-Straub
on June 27, 2017 7:11 PM
Message from Robin & Paul Straub
June 26, 2017 8:09 PM
Jim was a great man, a great friend, and a wonderful step-dad. Widely and affectionately known as Grumpy, his marshmallow center made a lie of his crusty shell. He loved his family, blood and by marriage, and if he was your friend, you knew you were special to be included in his chosen circle. He would do anything for those he loved, and never asked for anything in return. I will miss his wry sense of humor, and his companionship. He truly was a father to me, and I appreciated his "adoption " of me, and that he was truly a grandfather to my children. Say hello to George and to Grandma Angel for us, Jim. We miss you. All our love, Robin and Paul
Message from Calvin & Jan Washispack
June 26, 2017 8:00 PM
THE FINAL INSPECTION - James “Jim” W Darling, USMC
Jim, the “Marine” stood and faced God, which must always come to pass. He hoped his shoes were shining, just as brightly as his brass, “Step forward now, Marine, how shall I deal with you? Have you always turned the other cheek? To My Church have you been true?”
Jim squared his shoulders and said, “No, Lord, I guess I ain't. Because those of us who carry guns, can't always be a saint. I've had to work most Sundays, and at times my talk was tough. And sometimes I've been violent, because the world is awfully rough. But, I never took a penny, that wasn't mine to keep. Though I worked a lot of overtime,
When the bills just got too steep.
And I never passed a cry for help, though at times I shook with fear. And sometimes, God, forgive me,
I've wept unmanly tears.
I know I don't deserve a place, among the people here.
They never wanted me around, except to calm their fears. If you've a place for me here, Lord, it needn't be so grand. I never expected or had too much,
But if you don't, I'll understand.”
There was a silence all around the throne, where the saints had often trod.
As Jim, the “Marine” waited quietly, for the judgment of his God, “Step forward now, you Marine, you've borne your burdens well. Walk peacefully on Heaven's streets, you've done your time in Hell.”
~Author Unknown~
Jim, the “Marine” stood and faced God, which must always come to pass. He hoped his shoes were shining, just as brightly as his brass, “Step forward now, Marine, how shall I deal with you? Have you always turned the other cheek? To My Church have you been true?”
Jim squared his shoulders and said, “No, Lord, I guess I ain't. Because those of us who carry guns, can't always be a saint. I've had to work most Sundays, and at times my talk was tough. And sometimes I've been violent, because the world is awfully rough. But, I never took a penny, that wasn't mine to keep. Though I worked a lot of overtime,
When the bills just got too steep.
And I never passed a cry for help, though at times I shook with fear. And sometimes, God, forgive me,
I've wept unmanly tears.
I know I don't deserve a place, among the people here.
They never wanted me around, except to calm their fears. If you've a place for me here, Lord, it needn't be so grand. I never expected or had too much,
But if you don't, I'll understand.”
There was a silence all around the throne, where the saints had often trod.
As Jim, the “Marine” waited quietly, for the judgment of his God, “Step forward now, you Marine, you've borne your burdens well. Walk peacefully on Heaven's streets, you've done your time in Hell.”
~Author Unknown~
Message from Calvin & Jan Washispack
June 26, 2017 7:19 PM
TAPS
James “Jim” W Darling, USMC
Day is done.
Gone the sun.
From the lakes
From the hills.
From the sky.
All is well.
Safely rest.
God is nigh.
Fading light.
Dims the sight.
And a star.
Gems the sky.
Gleaming bright.
From afar.
Drawing nigh.
Falls the night.
Thanks and praise.
For our days.
Neath the sun
Neath the stars.
Neath the sky
As we go.
This we know.
God is nigh
James “Jim” W Darling, USMC
Day is done.
Gone the sun.
From the lakes
From the hills.
From the sky.
All is well.
Safely rest.
God is nigh.
Fading light.
Dims the sight.
And a star.
Gems the sky.
Gleaming bright.
From afar.
Drawing nigh.
Falls the night.
Thanks and praise.
For our days.
Neath the sun
Neath the stars.
Neath the sky
As we go.
This we know.
God is nigh
Message from Calvin & Jan Washispack
June 26, 2017 7:14 PM
Bobbie, Jan and I want to express our deepest condolences to you and your family. Jim was a good friend. In his own way, he did have a sense of humor and he was fun to be with. He will be deeply missed.
It is the “Marine”
A Tribute to James W Darling, USMC
It’s the Marine,
not the pastor/preacher, who has given us freedom of religion and worship.
It’s the Marine,
not the reporter, who has given us freedom of the press.
It’s the Marine,
not the poet, who has given us freedom of speech.
It’s the Marine,
not the campus organizer, who has given us freedom to assemble and demonstrate.
It’s the Marine,
not the lawyer, who has given us the right to a fair trial.
It’s the Marine,
not the politician, who has given us the right to vote, ensures our right to Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.
It’s the Marine, Who salutes the Flag, who serves beneath the Flag and whose coffin is draped by the Flag, who gives the protester the right to burn the flag.
ETERNAL REST GRANT HIM O LORD, AND LET PERPETUAL LIGHT SHINE UPON HIM.
It is the “Marine”
A Tribute to James W Darling, USMC
It’s the Marine,
not the pastor/preacher, who has given us freedom of religion and worship.
It’s the Marine,
not the reporter, who has given us freedom of the press.
It’s the Marine,
not the poet, who has given us freedom of speech.
It’s the Marine,
not the campus organizer, who has given us freedom to assemble and demonstrate.
It’s the Marine,
not the lawyer, who has given us the right to a fair trial.
It’s the Marine,
not the politician, who has given us the right to vote, ensures our right to Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.
It’s the Marine, Who salutes the Flag, who serves beneath the Flag and whose coffin is draped by the Flag, who gives the protester the right to burn the flag.
ETERNAL REST GRANT HIM O LORD, AND LET PERPETUAL LIGHT SHINE UPON HIM.
Message from Glenda Siani
June 26, 2017 5:55 PM
Grumpy was "family". And he is greatly missed.
Message from Pismo beach
June 28, 2017 12:13 AM
We are going to miss our grumpy old man 💙💙💙 I always try to get a smile out of him whenever I couldI,,,,, did my best......... I have so many good memories over the years l we had lots of fun..... we will miss you Jim 💙💙love ya vickie......
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